0TTO WALTER GYLLING
by Arzella F. Gylling
Otto Walter (Valdemar in Danish) Gylling, or O.W., or Walt, as heis commonly known, was born 5th of October 1881 in Hyleasted, Denmark. He was born of goodly parents, Jens Peter and Petronella A. Carlson Gylling. Walt was next to the baby in the family of fifteen children; only nine grew to maturity, and five were born prematurely. There were two sets of twins, but only one twin, Olena grew to maturity. (Four boys and five girls lived to full stature.)
Theirs was always a religious family, belonging to the Lutheran Church, before
the Missionaries began calling at
their
home.
The Missionaries were always made welcome
in the humble home. James
C.
Berthelson, who later became their son-in-law, and
P.B.
Green were the main ones
in bringing
the family
into the
Church. Mother Gylling was the first
to be baptized on 23 May 1801.
Father Gylling followed a little later on 9 August 1891.
The older children left Denmark and came to America before any of the
family heard anything about the Gospel; only one of them joined the Church.
They weren't allowed to baptize in the day-time, so all baptisms had to be done
after dark.
It
was
25 March
1892 when
Walt was baptized;
there were huge blocks of ice floating down the river, after being cut up above
to keep the river from
flooding the
land, so some one had to stand there and keep the blocks of ice
away while the Elder
baptized
him. He
wi11
never forget how cold it
was, but he never took cold from it since his soul was filled with warmth from
the inside.
Carl,
the
baby of the
family, was
baptized 22 March
1893.
They
were
all
anxious to go
to America, where
they could enjoy religious freedom, and get away from compulsory military service,
and to go where moral standards were higher.
The two missionaries who baptized and confirmed Otto Walter Gylling were:
Elder M.P.
Sorenson, Elder
P.G. Green,
who baptized him 25
who confirmed him
March 1892 in the
25 March 1892
River in Denmark 1892
Walt had a very eventful childhood in Denmark; although he left there when he
was twelve years old, there were places and events that stood out vividly in his
memory. The only schooling he received was in Denmark, to the fifth grade,
which was equivalent to the eighth grade in America. It was easy for him
to learn and he was a brilliant student, according to his sisters.
At their school Christmas parties,
special invitations
were required and
these were given only to the children
whose parents were considered to have the
most means. Walt
remembered
his sisters getting an invitation once, but he didn't, so he went and stood on
the outside and tried to see in. This always seemed hurt him, because he
had been told at school that those with the highest
grades would
receive an invitation, and he was
among the highest
scholastically
in his
class. Because his parents were poor,
however, he was never invited. They never had Christmas like we
have nowadays, and they never knew what it was like to receive a gift. If
they got some cookies, or a little sweet bread, or something out of the
ordinary, that made a wonderful Christmas for them.
His parents had to work hard in order to have something for the family to eat
and wear,
but he can never remember
going hungry. Several times, when her baby was only three days old, his
mother would go back into the fields to
work. She would
leave
instructions for the
older
children at home to follow.
His mother always wanted her children to attend church meetings on Sunday, even
if she couldn't go. One Sunday afternoon, Walt
was told to attend
church.
On his way, he met and saw a large crowd going skating. Oh! how he
wanted to go, but he knew
he
shouldn't.
His mother had
told him to
go to church, and
he
had
been taught to
obey. Seeing so many going,
however, the temptation frew so strong that he followed the crowd.
He
got
out
to the lake and was having
a lot of fun, although he didn't have any
skates.
He was having
such a good time that he didn't
notice
there was a place where the ice was thin and that it was being avoided by the
others. He soon went too far, and in
the
lake
he
went. He
couldn't swim and he kept grabbing
the
edge
of the ice which would break. Everyone was afraid to
go
close
enough to
help
him,
for
fear they would fall in too.
Oh! how he wished
he had
listened to his mother and had gone to church, but it was too
late. Many
things raced through
his mind, but the thing now
was
how was he going to get out, or would he be
able
to. Finally, a man with a cane
ventured out as far as he dared and held out his cane; Walt took
hold of it and finally got
out. He was
chilled
clear
through
and
had a long way to go
before reaching home. He made his way home as quickly
as
possible,
all the way hoping his mother wouldn't be there when he arrived. He
knew he would be punished
for
disobeying.
His father was
there and helped him take off his wet and frozen
clothes.
His skin was almost
rubbed off his legs by his frozen pants. His father did
not
punish
him
,
feeling
he
had received enough punishment.
He dried his clothing, gave him some warm soup and got him all warmed up before
his mother returned home. She did not learn of the
event until several days
afterward, when he still got his punishment.
She was a good, kind mother, but she believed that children
should learn to obey, so
that when she was away they could be trusted. This was a lesson in
obedience, one he was never to forget, because he had nearly lost his life.
Walt worked herding
cows the last
three summers he was in the Old
Country.
He had many experiences which he will never forget. The first
summer he received eight crowns, which he
spent
on a pair of shoes,
having to depend on his parents for the rest of his clothing, since he was not
paid enough to pay for all of
his
clothing. The second summer he was paid ten
crowns,
and the last summer he
lived there, he received twelve crowns.
One day he heard
that the King and his
company
were traveling through the
country
and
towns.
He walked and ran
all
day to
get to the town
where the King
was
to pass. Very tired,
he
reached the town just in time to see the carriage in which the King rode,
complete with footmen and guards
on
big, beautiful horses. The entourage was just leaving, and Walt did not
get
to see the
King, but he returned home happy to
know he had been close to him.
This
was quite
a
thing for people in those days to experience and it was an honor. He also
remembers that, as one of the boys working on a farm, it being his first day at
work, he went in to the dinner provided by the owner of the farm. He was
the first one
in
and the lady put a
very
large
bowl of flour mush on the
table and told him to go ahead and eat. Well, the boy ate and ate and ate
and, finally with tears in his eyes, he looked at the lady and said, "I'm sorry,
Ma'am, but my mother always told me to eat everything that was put before me,
but I just can't eat all that mush." The lad was relieved to learn that
it was the custom at that house to put all the food in one dish on the table and
everyone ate from it. This mush was to have been dinner enough for all the
men.
On the farm, the workers followed a
definite
schedule. After breakfast of
hot milk and bread, they went to work. At 10:00 a.m., a whistle blew and
everyone quit work to eat a mid-day snack, usually a
sandwich and drink, and then back to
work.
At noon, they came in
for a dinner of potatoes, gravy, meat, vegetables and dessert. After
dinner, they took a nap and were called at 1:45 for cake and coffee, and then
back to work until 4:00 p.m., when the whistle blew again for a mid-afternoon
snack of a sandwich and drink (beer,
coffee, milk). They then worked until
7:00 p.m., when they went in to supper which was a light meal of whatever was
left over from dinner. Walt does not remember whether they ate
again
before going to bed,
but I'll bet they did, don't you?
He
said they always fed
their
horses
every time they quit to
eat during the day. They also
milked the cows three times a day. They really worked hard between snacks,
as all work was done by hand in those days.
Men and women worked together in the fields in order to get the crops
planted and harvested.
WALT'S VOYAGE TO AMERICA: Walt left Denmark on his twelfth birthday, 5
October 1893, in the care of a missionary, P.B. Green of Plain City, Utah, who
is 91 years old at this time and living in Idaho Falls, Idaho. The ocean
voyage on the "Alaska" was long
and
rough.
Walt
spent
most of his time, while crossing the
ocean,
hidden under a canvas in a life boat
fastened to the top of the ship. He was very sea sick. He
was
traveling
with a woman and her son, but this
woman did not pay very much attention to
him.
It was a good
thing he wasn't discovered
in
the life
boat.
His guardian angel
was watching over him, because he could have fallen overboard, and no one would
have known what happened to him.
It took a day to unload after landing at New York
City. They left New York City by train on the long trip to Utah. The
lady Walt was traveling with got off the train in St. Louis, Missouri, so Walt
traveled on to Utah alone. The woman had given him fifty cents. He
spent twenty-five cents on the train for some lunch, and arrived in Ogden, Utah,
with twenty-five cents left. He arrived in Ogden sometime in the morning
and there was no one there to meet him. His sisters, Olena and Botilda,
had called the depot and had been told that the emigration train would not
arrive until afternoon.
So Walt wandered around the depot, bought some
grapes and cookies for fifteen cents. He stood around eating his fruit and
cookies, and waited for his sisters to come. His sisters had arrived some
time before from Denmark and were both working in Ogden.
Olena was working for the wife of an apostle, and
Tilda was working in the home of the owners of a fine meat market.
In the afternoon, Walt's sisters arrived and
they all had a happy reunion. Walt stayed with Lena for a few days before
going on to Plain City to P.B. Green's home. Walt related that, "when he
came after me, he was driving a fine team of black horses, and we went to Plain
City where I made my home for the next three years".
Young ladies
in those days
always wore long dresses.
In telling of the trip Olena and Tilda made from the Old Country,
it was related that Tilda made a
short
dress for Olena, so
she could pass as
younger and travel for half fare. This
worked
fine and, after arriving in New York and boarding the train for the West,
they could both be grown up
again. After she
had
changed her short dress for a
longer
one, she threw
the
short
dress
out
of
the
train window, not knowing what else to
do with it. They laughed when
telling the story, because
they
could
have put
the short dress with
their other clothing. It had been made out of beautiful material and
they wished
many times that
they had saved it to make
over into something else.
Walt stayed with the P.B. Green family for a while.
They were crowded because they had two children and were expecting a
third. Walt and the oldest boy, Luman, five years old, slept together.
Luman and his wife recently came to the Mesa Temple where he met Walt by
chance, the two of them not having seen each other for over 57 years.
After leaving the home of P.B. Green, Walt went to live with a brother-in-law of
Green, a man by the name of Abraham Maw. He worked
for his board, room and clothing, milking cows, gardening and helping their
daughter, Florence, who was about his age, with the washing, turning the washer
for her and doing other odd jobs wherever needed.
The Maw family was a very fine religious family.
The rule in the family was that the children were to be in by nine o'clock, but
Walt and Florence had been coming in a little later, so Brother Maw said that if
they weren't in by nine this Sunday night, the doors would be locked. Walt
was playing at the city block after church and, at five minutes to nine, he
started running the four blocks to home.
He didn't make it in time and found the door
locked. His feelings were hurt, but he went back and played around some
more. He stayed all night with one of his friends. Florence hadn't
made it home in time either, but they let her in. They would have let Walt
in also, but he hadn't asked. The next day, Walt came and got his clothes,
saying that he was leaving to stay with another family.
Florence laughed, saying that it was funny,
but it wasn't very funny to him. He stayed away only a short time, coming
back knowing that this family was the best after all.
In the fall, he helped gather to crops, picking apples and hauling them to Ogden
to market. He had many happy memories of the three years he spent in Plain
City, and of the good people he was with. (In June, 1927, the summer after we
were married, we took a trip, taking Gladys, Luella, Garda, Norma, Clara, Irvin,
and Dennis, up through Utah and other places, and visited Plain City, with the
folks there. Again in 1950, when we took Dorothy and Vaughn to Salt Lake
City to enter the mission home before going on their mission, we drove up there
on Sunday afternoon. We visited with Henry Maw, who was about the only one
of the Maw family left. We found out that P.B. Green was still living in
Idaho Falls, so the next day we drove up there to see him. We couldn't spend
much time, as we had promised to be back the next day, and Dad Knight was with
us and had a severe attack of Asthma.)
REUNITED WITH HIS PARENTS.
ln
the
meantime, Mother
Gylling
and Carl had come
over from Denmark, and landed in Sanford, Colorado, as Tilda was living there
then. (James C.
Berthelsen
had
lost
his first wife, and later wrote to Tilda and
proposed
to
her, so she decided to go to Sanford
and marry him. Olena then went to San Francisco, California, where Marie
was living, and this left Walt along in Utah.)
The Gylling family could come over from
Denmark only a few at a time, work and send money to help one of the others
come, until the entire family had come. Father Gylling was the last to
come.
In the fall of 1896, Walt left Utah and came to Sanford with his parents.
That was a happy reunion. He had seen them for three years, and having
been with English-speaking people the entire time,
he had almost forgotten the Danish language, as he had been speaking English all
the
time. When he met his
folks, he couldn't talk to them for a while, but, in a few days, it all came
back to him.
Many years later, when
Walt and Carl were doing
very good in
business and had accumulated considerable money, some men were talking one day,
remarking
how well they done.
One said, "And you
know,
these
guys couldn't even
laugh in English
when they came to this country."
Walt rode the train from Utah to La Jara, Colorado. He got in
a wagon to go to Sanford. It was cold and what roads
there
were,
were
muddy. It really wasn't a road, just a cut-off through the country.
When they neared Sanford, Walt got off the wagon and ran
the rest of the
way.
The mud was so
deep, he
could hardly move, but he knew he could make better time on foot than on the
wagon.
His first winter in
Colorado, Walt
spent with his parents, working here and
there at anything he could find to do, to get enough to eat and
wear. Times
were hard;
there
wasn't
much
money, and wages were
poor. He
would work chopping
wood
all day for
twenty-four cents. He would take a dozen eggs to
the
store for a due-bill, to get money to buy a dance ticket. His mother made
shoes of seamless sacks to protect
his
feet. Earlier in the fall, Walt
and his father
worked on a
threshing
machine, bucking straw.
Walt and Jimmie Berthelson were just like brothers. Jimmie and his sister,
Mae, were in the home
when Tilda came.
Walt and Jimmie would take the team
and wagon of Jimmie's
uncle,
S.C. Berthelson, and would haul wood from
the west hills. They would haul a load for
S.C. and,
then, one for them. In
the
mean time,
they would saw and chop the wood for S.C.
for twenty five cents per day, which he thought was big wages. They
also hauled lots of rock for the Sanford Church, which was
in
the
process of being built. Walt
helped his father and mother build a log house, their first home in the Valley.
Later, he and Carl helped them build a nice adobe home, where they lived very
comfortably
in later
years.
In the
spring, Walt ran away from home.
He
got
a
little
peaved
over something Carl
had done, when his
mother took up
for him. He went
to Alamosa and worked for a farmer, west of Alamosa, for twelve dollars a month,
but had to wait until the next spring to receive his money. In the summer,
he hopped a freight train and went to Littleton, this side of Denver, and got a
job haying for money, good board, and room.
He returned home around his birthday, 5 October 1897. Soon afterwards, he
went up in the Bowen country, this side of Monte Vista, and worked for a fellow
by the name of Pound. Jimmie, George Rasmussen, another fellow, and Walt
all worked there, sacking grain, peas, etc., then helped with the threshing.
They were about half through with the threshing when a big snow storm came.
They couldn't work, so they decided to go home. George had an old gray
mare and sled to take them home,
but the snow was so deep, they almost never made it home. Later, when the
weather cleared up, Walt went back up near Monte Vista, worked for a fellow,
looked after his place, and hauled grain to Monte Vista, and did chores, and
stayed all winter. He earned a wagon and harness, which he repaired and
got in first-class shape in his spare time. He gave this to his father for
the cost of his fare from Denmark, which was about $112.00.
While working on this
place, he put in
many hours alone. Jimmie would come by once in a while and they would
shoot rabbits and have hot biscuits. One night, Walt dreamed that a mouse
ran across his face, and he grabbed it and threw it on the floor. The
dream was so real. The next morning, he thought he would look and see if I
had been dreaming or not. And, sure enough, there was a dead mouse on the
floor!
In the spring of 1898, he helped put in a crop for Mr. Pifer, on the Frank
Russell place, now owned by Clark Hutchinson. He was promised $18.00 a
month, but never got a cent. A year later, he got 1,000 pounds of oats,
which was very little pay for the time he had put in, but he was lucky to get
anything.
In the fall and winter of 1898, he traded for a team of horses from Filo Carter.
He went to Summitville with Bill Brothers, and worked cutting timber for the
mine. The next summer, he noticed that the stumps he had left were eleven
feet high. The snow was that high when he had cut the timber. He
earned enough money to pay for the team. He came home around February
1899, and bought a nice harness from Bill Braiden, on time, for $40.00.
With his team and his father's wagon he hauled hay from the Harvey Ranch (now
Weir Smith's place).
Later, he went to South Fork, where John Anderson and his sister, Carrie, were
living. John was hauling ties, and Walt got a job hauling ties, also.
He boarded with the Andersons. Carrie was real good to him. Andy
Anderson, a nephew of John and husband of Olena later in 1900, was working up
there also, operating a saw. One day, he left the saw running. Walt
did not notice and walked into the saw, almost cutting his hand off. Andy
felt so bad. Walt had to quit his job and come home in June for a couple
of months while his hand healed. He had traded for thirty-three acres of
land from J.C. Berthelson (the first land he ever owned), rented a team for
twenty-five cents a day, bought a plow for $12.00, and plowed the land while his
hand was healing. Andy had felt so bad that he quit his job and ran Walt's
team and wagon while Walt was gone, trying to make money for both of them.
Andy didn't understand how to brake a wagon coming down with a load. When
Walt returned, he found his wagon wrecked.
In the fall, Walt bought another wagon from Braiden Hardware Store, for $140.00,
on time. By this time, he had paid for his harness and plow. He went
back up to South Fork, on the Rio Grande, to work and to board with his sister,
Carrie, and John Anderson. It was tough going. There was much snow
and it was hard work hauling railroad ties and lumber from the saw mill to South
Fork. It got so tough that he returned home in 1900.
Now he had a team, harness, and a new wagon, and lacked just $40.00 of having it
all paid for. He traded his team and harness to J.C. Berthelson for
$200.00 in land to be delivered down at Marianna, New Mexico. He had the
wagon left and S.C. Berthelson recommended he sell it to Will Beals whom he said
was strictly honest and a good trader. Walt took a note from
Will Beals for $112.00 for the
wagon.
Walt still
has
the
worn-out note, for which he has never received a cent. The old man skipped
the country, and was not heard from for several years. When he did show up
years later, his mid was mostly gone. He died a year later, and only about
a half dozen people attended his funeral. It pays to be honest and upright
in all your dealings with your fellow men and with God.
Walt now had some
land, but no team or wagon, so he went back
up to South Fork to work for Galbrath's.
He bought a team
of
bay mares, a wagon and
harness. for $250.00, which he paid back at the rate of $25.00 per month.
He worked back and forth on the farm and South Fork (where he made his first
wedding stake) until 1902 when, on April 9, he was married to Loshia Elizira
Lloyd. To this union nine children were born.
While working at South Fork,
sometimes,
he would ride his dicycle down to Sanford to attend a dance after work. On
one
occasion, he started out
after work and got to Sanford
just in
time for the dance.
After the
dance, and after he
had
taken his girl home, he
would start back to South Fork
without
any sleep. One
time, he got
back as far as
Del Norte and was so
tired and sleepy that he could go on no
further. He put his bicycle over the fence in the willows and went
to sleep. This was about ten
o'clock
in the morning. He woke up about four in the afternoon and rode on in.
This was when he was hauling lumber for so much per 1,000 feet, so it was up to
him if he made anything.
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The following history of O.W. Gylling is repeated in his words as dictated on
October 15, 1966:
Two winters before l got married, l was working at South fork. I
was hauling lumber from up
Decker
Creek. This was on
Christmas
Day. I was all
loaded up.
I was driving four horses. Just as I got ahold of the lines and upon the
load, I noticed the two leaders began to act up. I looked over about
twenty-five yards away and saw two mountain lions, just looking me right in the
face. There was about three feet of snow on the ground and they were
hungry. I drove on down and was glad to get away. This was one close
call. One I have never forgotten.
I married Loshia Elzira Lloyd, 9 April 1902, and took my wife to South Fork,
Colorado, where I was hauling lumber and rail road ties for Charley Galbrath.
I was paid so much per 1,000 feet.
The lumber mills closed down in August so we
returned
to
Sanford.
My wife was expecting
and not feeling too good.
On New Year's Day, I decided to
take
Loshia for
a sleigh ride to see her
folks. They lived in the far
south part of town and we lived in the north.
On the way
back,
the team ran away,
it
being a
young,
frisky team.
I held
them to the road
but
could
not hold them
down. They
ran right through
ditches, as
there
were no bridges in
those
days. This was a rough deal for
Loshia,
for in a short time
she started having
labor pains and our
first child, a son,
Rudolph Helmer,
was born a short time after midnight, 2 January 1903.
I was called back to work the last of January or the first of February, and
stayed about six weeks before I returned home because it was so cold and the pay
was poor. This, was the last time I
worked at South Fork. The snow would melt in the daytime and we would get
all wet. Then I would get home late at night, my pants would be frozen to
my legs and I could hardly get them off.
I would put them under my bedding
and, after sleeping on top of them all night, I would be able to put them on the
next morning.
It cost me $1.00 a
day for board and 1.50 a day to feed my team.
I was paid only $4.00 a day.
I just couldn't take it at that rate, as I still owed $112.00 for my team.
After I quit work at South Fork, I worked on the farm and hauled lumber from the
east hills. I borrowed $112.00 from Rudolph Carvolic, the President of the
bank, and paid the balance on my team.
Our second son, Carl Wilford, was born 20 June 1904. Later, our first
girl, Clara, was born 3 September 1906.
The following spring I sold my team and my land, and had a little money on hand.
My brother, Carl, had bought a lot on main street, had hauled gravel, and had
started to build a meat market. He didn't have money to go ahead, so I
bought him out and finished the building, put in meat, and later a fountain.
The first ice cream I made I didn't put enough salt on the ice, hence churned
the cream.
I had a contract with B.S. Reynolds who furnished meat at six cents a pound.
The most I ever received for selling the meat was ten cents per pound.
I sold the fountain to Carl, who had built a bowling alley on the south of the
Trivola Hall, then owned by Swen Peterson. The Trivola Hall was a large
dance hall built with 82 automobile springs under the floor, the only one in the
Valley. People came from all over to attend the dances.
After selling the fountain, I put in
groceries along with the meat
mark
et. I did a very good business.
As business
grew,
I
needed a larger building,
so I bought a half interest in a
larger store
owned by C. Poulsen.
Later, I traded my half interest to Swen Peterson for
Trivola
Hall and the
bowling alley
which Swen had bought
from Carl.
Swen Peterson had a
general merchandise
store which
he sold to Chris
Cornum when he
was
elected
County Treasurer.
It was
a co-op store at that time, which Chris ran for a while before he got too much
owed to him on the books. People were hard up and couldn't pay their bills
so he, in turn, got in bad with the people he bought from. He closed the
store. Swen, still having an interest in the store, came down to check on
things. We paid Chris $1,200, or in that neighborhood, for his interest
and took over the spoils, and I had a half interest in it. We found out
later that the merchandise we took over had very little value, as it included
such things as odd sizes, so we didn't get much out of it. We put in drugs
on one side of the store, and Dr. Skinkle from La Jara came over once or twice a
week to check them over. We did all right while living in Sanford.
The first car I ever owned was a one-lunger Cadillac. Dr.
Skinkle and I were the first to own cars in this part of the Valley. It
was such a novelty, as everyone wanted to ride in it on Sunday afternoon.
They would all line up and I would take as many as could hang on for twenty-five
cents each. The only way we could buy gas in those days was in five-gallon
cans from the drug store. Later, I traded for a Great Smith. From
that time on, we have always had one or two cars in the family.
I used to take the Sanford band in my Great Smith to play for dances at Logereta
where John Anderson lived. They had a big red barn with a good floor in
the attic, where people could dance. One time, we had the drums tied to
the back of the car. Somehow, they came untied and we lost them and they
were never found.
When World War I broke out, there was talk that the Church was going to ask such
places as the Trivola Hall to be closed down. Well, I couldn't afford to
do that, as we had moved to the farm and thought we could run both the hall and
the farm. I did sell the hall to the Church for $4,000.00, or maybe
$4,500.00. There were always a few people in the Church who found fault and made
something out of nothing, like when I first bought the hall and put in restrooms
-- one on the south for the men and one on the north for the women. Some
people said that was the worst thing they had ever heard of.
The hall was operated by the Church from that time on, but it was never properly
maintained and became run down. There were still many good times and
dances enjoyed there, but the springs would break and not be repaired, and the
floor was never again the pleasure it once was to dance on. The bowling
alley was abandoned and, as time passed, the Trivola Hall was also abandoned.
The first Church work, or job I had in the Church, was janitor for the Church
building in Sanford for four years. I worked with Lyme Carter and a
brother Canty. The only pay we ever got was when a dance was held, which
was about every Friday night, and we got $2.00 for preparing the building.
The three of us divided this $1.00. The school janitor was supposed to
clean out the ashes from the stove every Friday night, but this very rarely
happened. The Deacons were supposed to prepare the Sacrament, but so many
times they failed to do so, and, at the last minute, we had to do it.
When
I had put in three years as janitor, I asked Bishop Crowther if I could be
released. He said he would see about it, but it was another half year
before I was released.
Before selling the Trivola Hall to the Church, I had held dances, ball games,
shows of traveling groups, and other entertainment. We had a very thriving
business but had to put in many long, hard hours. We made all the ice
cream, which I was able to do successfully after my first experience at it.
Sometimes, I would have a double orchestra. One orchestra was the Troy
Sowards Orchestra from Manassa, consisting of Troy Sowards on violin, Janie
Jarvies on piano, John Jarvies on drums, and Willard Sowards on cornet.
The other orchestra, the Sanford Orchestra, consisted of Eugene Mortensen on
cornet and trombone, Alma Crowther on violin, Leah Kirby on piano, Wilford Canty
on drums, and Raymond Junt from Alamosa on clarinet. Sometimes, Tom
Driesdale would play cornet and A. Winters would play flute with the Sanford
Orchestra.
We
really drew the crowds, as it was a pleasure to dance on that floor. We
used to hold bowling tournaments and, at one time, Carl and I were the champion
bowlers of the Valley. I can truthfully say that I always ran a good,
clean business and people today will remark what good times they enjoyed there.
It was kept in first-class shape.
In
the meantime, four other children were born to us: Viola on 18 November
1908, Clarence Alfred on 26 July 1911 (who died on 30 July 1911), Gladys on 2
August 1914, and Luella on 17 March 1916.
I bought eighty acres of land at
Bountiful and we moved there. While living at
Bountiful, one more child was added to our
family. Garda was born on 15 July
1918. In the fall and winter of that year, there was an outbreak of
influenza, a very terrible disease, from which people were dying like flies.
Our family got it, as did
the
Lloyd family. I would take care of our family and, then, would go to
Sanford to care of Loshia's family. Her brother, Orson, died from it.
I prepared his body for burial, as there were no undertakers in the area in
those days.
Other members
of the
family were seriously ill and I did
not know who might die
next.
However, after many days, the rest of the family
recovered. It was a sad and trying time.
In the spring of 1919, I sold the Bountiful place
and
bought
a farm owned by Dan Newcomb
one-
half mile west on
the Capulin
road.
I made a down payment of $10,000.00. The house was
in terrible shape and
required
extensive repairs to the sagging
floors.
The house must have been built
on
a snake den,
because when we
went under the house to do the repairs, we found rolls and rolls of water
snakes. We thought
we
had them
cleaned out;
however,
all the time we lived there they kept coming out at times. There was no
poison available in those days to use
to
control them, so we just had to keep on fighting them. We did very good as
far as the crops were concerned, but
the price we
received was very poor.
Norma was born on 30 November 1920.
Because I was unable to make the fourth payment on my note with Mr. Newcomb, who
had passed away, I went to his widow, Mrs. Newcomb, and requested that she lower
the interest rate from 12% to 10%, to enable me to keep the payments up.
She said "Mr. Gylling, I will give you all the time you need, but I must have
the 12% interest." I told her that, in that case, I would be glad to deed
the property back to her. I then gave her $1,000.00 for the lease for the
next year. I found out later that I could have farmed the land the next
year and let her foreclose. I could have had another crop without paying
her a cent. But, I have always been honest in all my dealings and don't
think I would have felt good about it.
During our fourth season on this farm, we
harvested good crops
again,
but the
prices were still very low. On the last of January, 1923, the boys
and I were out in the yard and there was still quite a bit of snow on the
ground.
We saw a man walking all over the farm.
When he came into the yard, I saw that it was Aaron Hawkins.I asked him
what he was doing and he replied, "I just leased this farm, and I would like for
you to be off by March 1st.
"This
was a great blow to us.
Mrs.
Newcomb had never said a word to me, and I had supposed that I could lease the
farm again the next year.
We had to
find another place to move onto and this was hard to do this late, as most of
the farms were already leased this late in the spring.
We found a place north
of Monte Vista. We really had to
hustle
around to repair this place to get it ready
to move
into, and we got moved by
March 1st. The house was small, but there was a bunk house, which we fixed
up so some of the family could sleep in it. Before we moved, we held a
sale at the old place and, the morning of the sale, there was eighteen inches of
snow on the ground. But, Helmer dug snow out of the lane and out of the
yard as best he could. Bill and I got busy and moved the machinery around.
We had a good crowd and held a good sale.
I was called to be President of the YMMIA in the Richfield Ward in the fall of
1919. Leonora Knight, the mother of my
present wife and the wife of John S. Knight who was Second Counselor in the
Bishopric, was President of the YWMIA. Art Guymon and Cleve Rumsey were my
counselors. We really had a good Mutual during the next two years. I
was released upon moving to Monte Vista.
We were very lonesome up there
at
Monte
Vista. There
was
no
Church and it was too far to drive to Richfield. My sister,
Carrie, and her husband, John
Anderson, lived on up west of us so we visited with them
often. We had good crops and
the
prices were good.
In the fall of 1922, we let the two
older
girls, Clara and Viola,
stay in La Jara with Iva Silfer and attend school, where they had been going.
We were crowded anyway. Clara was married on June 16 1923 to Irvin T.
Nissen, living in Alamosa, Colorado.
In the fall of 1923, I leased
the Pete Peterson place four and one-half
miles
west
on
the
Capul1n
road,
and
we
moved
back to La Jara. I was called to be President of the YMMIA
in the Richfield ward again on 7 December 1923. On 5 October 1924, I was
called to the Superintendency of the Richfield Ward Sunday School. On 7
December 1924, I was called as Second Counselor in the Bishopric of the
Richfield ward, serving with David E. Shawcroft and John S. Knight, First
Counselor.
Having good crops and being financially able, I was
called to fill a short-term mission to the Northern States Mission, with
headquarters in Chicago. I was not, however, released from the two Church
jobs I already held, and this was very unusual.
I had not yet received my endowments in the Temple,
so we were preparing to go to the Temple, when I received a letter from Salt
Lake, advising me not to come in but to have President James P. Jensen, Stake
President, set me apart for my mission and to leave from home and go directly to
Chicago. I did this and departed on 3 March 1926. Many things
happened during this year, some happy and many sorrowful. I received a
letter from my son, Helmer, and, when my mission President read it, he said
"Brother Gylling, your mission is at home, and may the Lord bless you." I
received an honorable release on 26 May 1926 and departed for home. I
enjoyed my time spent in the mission field, made many friends, and was top man
in the placement of Books of Mormon. My testimony was strengthened
greatly, which helped me to face the ordeals which followed.
On
reaching home, I found that my
wife,
Loshia, had moved
from our farm
home into La Jara.
Up seeing her,
she asked me for a divorce. This was a great blow to me. After talking things
over with her and the fellow, a hired hand she had fallen in love with, we
started divorce proceedings on 1 Jun 1926. I went to her many times asking her
to reconsider for the sake of the children, as there were still four girls at
home.
I told her we would move away and start anew,
but she could not see it that way.
I received the final divorce on 16 December 1926, the court giving me custody of
the four girls, Gladys.
I received
the final divorce on 16
December 1926,
the court giving me custody of the four girls; Gladys, 12 years old, Luella, 10
years, Garda, eight years, and Norma, six years old.
Helmer, my oldest
son, and
his wife, Mattie, moved in with me, and helped
take care of the children.
Many thoughts ran thru my mind at all hours of the day and
night. Many prayerful, sleepless nights
helped me to determine my future. I needed a wife, a homemaker, and a mother for
my children. In answer to my prayers, I sought the company of a fine, young lady
in the Richfield Ward. She was Arzella Knight, the Secretary of the Sunday
School, who was very faithful in her calling. There was a big decision to make
because of a difference in our ages and because of the four children at home. He
had a short and congenial courtship, and were married in the Salt Lake Temple on
17 February 1927. We have had a wonderful life together. We have been blessed
with six wonderful children, four daughters and two sons, and all have wonderful
companions. They are all active in the church and many have served missions for
the church. Most all of them have much musical talent.
Dorothy married Vaughn N. Sowards on 4 June 1946. They filled a mission in the
Southern States after they had been married four years. Since they didn't yet
have children, they are able to fill their mission together for two years during
1950 - 52. They have been blessed since with three sons; Kim who is 12, Lee who
is 8, and Ricky who is 5. Vaughn served in the Manassa Ward Bishopric for three
years and was Bishop for eight years. And, a beautiful chapel was built under
his supervision.
Dona
married George N. Sowards on 6 June1947. George filled a Spanish-speaking
mission to Argentina, South America, and he served as an interpreter for the
United States for six months after his mission. He came home and enlisted in the
Navy, and served until the end of World War II. They have been blessed with
fivechildren: Lonna Rae 18 and attending college in Flagstaff, Dennis 16,Joe 14,
Tommy 9, and Steven 3 years old.
Lola
married Walter Curtis Dana on 7 May1948. They have five children: Maria Ann 17,
Patricia 14, Joan11, Robert 8, and Julie 5 years old. Curt is serving in the
YMMIA. Lola is President of the Relief Society.
Lena
married Lewis Arnold Bailey on 14February 1952. They have four children: Diane
12, Randy 11, Monica 10,and Arnold Walter 5 years old.
Ivan
K. Gylling married Nathel Rodney on14 May 1958. Ivan had served a two-year
mission to the Great Lakes Mission during 1955 - 1957. They have six
children: Ivan Walter 7, David K. 6, Trenna 5, Dane 4, Kelly 3, and Nathel 1
years old.
J. Walter Gylling married Emily Jane Warwick on 4 June 1962. Jay had filled a
two-year
mission to the Northern States Mission during 1957-59. He has served in the
National Guard since 1959. From 1962 to 1966, he served as Second Counselor to
Bishop John B. Shawcroft in the La Jara Ward.
Jay is now President of the YMMIA.
We lived on the Pete Peterson place which I farmed. In the summer of 1927, I
bought the place that Peter Cornum was living on, two and a half miles north and
one and a half miles west of La Jara on the Capulin road. I had it leveled and
put up new fences all around it, as most of it was in pasture and brush. In
1931-32, we built a new fourteen-room home and moved there from the Peterson
place on 25 March 1932, two days before our fourth daughter, Lena, was born.
My brother, Carl, and I had been in the produce business, buying and shipping,
for some time, under the name of Gylling Brothers, Inc. The Great Depression
hit. Carl had been running most of the business, while l looked after the
farms. He over-bought potatoes and there was no market
for them. Things were in bad shape. I began trucking potatoes south and would
bring citrus fruits back. I traded and sold in both directions and was able to
keep the wolf away from the door. Carl and R.K. Finley, our bookkeeper, pulled
out and started up another business, Gylling-Finley Produce, in Alamosa. Thus,
Gylling Brothers, Inc., was dissolved. I took over the buildings and the spoils
with $40,000.00owed to me on notes, many of which I still hold today. Many
people, including friends and relatives, did not pay. I made a practice of
enclosing such notes, marked paid, in Christmas cards, but no one ever
acknowledged getting them.
The trucking business became rough because so many licenses were required, and
we had to pay fees in each of the different states we drove through. Newel
Knight, a brother-in-law, who has worked for us nearly all our married life,
went on the truck with me. I decided to quit the trucking business and devote my
attention to the farms. I bought and shipped hogs. In June, I opened an office
and business under the name of 0.W. Gylling Produce. This way, we could ship our
own garden peas, which we grew, packed and shipped every summer, together with
those we bought from others. I worked very carefully and had to mortgage the
farm, but I finally satisfied our creditors. We gradually gained confidence and
good credit, and built a good, thriving business. We would ship 125 to 150
carloads of garden peas in a season.
When the market would weaken, I would sometimes pile up 25 or 50 carloads of
peas on the track at La Jara. In this way, I was able to get a good price by
selling 10 to 15 carloads to one company. The buyers all got itchy when I
started pilin them up, but we were always able to get a better price helping the
other shippers as well as ourselves. My son, Helmer, and son-in-law, Hartley
Owsley, worked with us for four seasons.
In the winter, I shipped potatoes and also bought and shipped hogs to the west
coast. Clarinda Knight, my sister-in-law, was my secretary and we got along
fine. She got married 17 December 1938, and my secretary was Marie Hawkins the
following season. Marie left on a mission for the Church and Alice Peterson was
my next secretary, and she was assisted by my wife, who did the book work in the
winter months and took over the following season.
I also bought a sheep herd from Glenn Jackson, which we ran for14 to 15 years,
which we did successfully. Some falls, I would buy lambs and feed them out. Even
after I sold the herd, I continued feeding lambs. The last time I bought and fed
was in the fall of 1959. We always managed to make a little, although the death
loss in the sheep business, was great at times.
Thus, we carried on from 1933 to the fall of 1944, when we bought a home in
Mesa, Arizona, and moved the family there to obtain better schools and education
for our children, and to be close to the Temple so we could do more for our
kindred dead. In the summer of 1945, we sold the produce to a Maney Cohn of
Chicago. He ran it for one year and sold it to our son-in-law, Hartley Owsley,
who had worked with us for four years. He owns the business today.
All the money received from the sale of the produce business was given to the
children from my first family, and their mother. They each got S3,000.00, which
was the value of my estate when I married Arzella.
I did not have to give Loshia a share, but she had no home and was
divorced from her husband, Glen Snider. We had the boys buy her a home in La
Jara from Deloris Nielson, and to furnish it. She lived comfortably in it until
her death. She has now been sealed to me, and my present wife stood as proxy for
her in the Temple.
I kept running the farms, driving back and forth to Mesa. I sold two farms and
thought I was going to quit, but I turned around and bought another one.
In 1956, we sold the farms to our two boys, Ivan and J. Walter. I continued to
manage them while the boys finished their school and filled their missions.
Now, back to my Church work. While still serving in the Bishopric of the
Richfield Ward, under David E. Shawcroft. I was released from the Sunday School
in April 1927. David E. Shawcroft was released as Bishop on 13 March 1932. James
N. Shawcroft was ordained Bishop and the counselors were re-sustained the same
day. During the time I was working under these two bishops, we have many
experiences. We were called to establish peace between members of our ward. I
seemed to be blessed as a peace-maker, and we were able to establish peace, love
and unity with members of the ward. I was called as President of the YMMIA,
again, after being released as Sunday School Superintendent. Seems as though I
have held two positions in the Church all the time. During this time, I was
able, with the help of the Lord, to put over the Budget system in the ward,
although it hadn't been successful before. I made a deal with our local movie
owner, Ned Newcomb, for one show a week on the family budget ticket, and this,
along with other entertainments brought love and unity to our ward.
We
were called as a Bishopric to visit and administer to the sick many times. We
have seen many people healed who received a blessing even before we could take
our hands off their heads. We were called to many places where there was a
contagious disease, but not one time did any of us or our families contract the
disease. I have been blessed with the power of healing in my own home, as well
as for others in and out of the Church. I can bear testimony to the power of
healing.
I
was released as a counselor in the Bishopric and was ordained Bishop on 16 June
1935. J. Howard Shawcroft and J. Donald Hutchins were my counselors. We worked
very united and enjoyed many rich experiences. I was able to assist many
families in sickness and death. Getting aid from the county, as well as the
Church, I assisted the needy and the widows of our ward. I still receive much
praise from members and they still call me Bishop and give praise for the things
I did while I was Bishop. I am grateful for this, although I do not seek
praise. What I did was in the line of service, and I felt it was my duty.
In January, 1936, we went to Denver on the advice of Dr. J.R. Hurley, to have
physical checkups. My wife had not been feeling well since the death of her
mother on 22 April 1935. She had taken on a lot of responsibility for her
brothers and sisters still at home. My wife was given cold shots and her arm
abscessed. We were in Denver during Stock Show time and there was a lot of flu
around. We had taken Norma, the youngest daughter from my first marriage, with
us. She had been having terrible times with
her periods, which were
almost a flow
to death at times. The specialist thought she could have a chance to build up
her strength if she were given x-ray treatments to stop her completely for one
year. The same day, they told me
I had a kidney stone in my left kidney, and
maybe in the right. Further tests the next day found that my wife's blood was in
a very bad condition and wouldn't coagulate. They also told her she was
pregnant, although she had not missed a period. They ran a rabbit test. This was
quite a shock to us as we were
prepared to stay only three or four days before returning to our local doctor
for treatment. The test next day ruled out a stone in my right kidney, but I had
a terrible reaction from the examination which gave me chills and fever. The
doctors didn't know whether it was a reaction or
flu. In three
days
they
moved me to
St. Lukes Hospital. My wife and
daughter stayed at the hotel so they would be close by for treatments.
With the chills and fever, I perspired so much my wife had to
change the bed linens during the
night. This was a difficult thing to do in a hotel. It was quite a chore to
bring nourishment to me. Besides, I didn't have an appetite and only took some
fluids.
They treated me
for
the
flu
and this caused
pneumonia which took three weeks to
clear up before I could be operated on for the kidney
stones. In the
meantime, my kidney
had pussed up and, when they
opened
me
up, it almost drove them out of the
room. All they could do was sew me up and hope it would start
draining so they
could tell if the kidney was
functional. It reacted well, so
in two weeks
time, thru x-rays, they found the
stone in the tube
near the bladder. They operated again
and took a portion of the prostate gland, but did not get the stone. A week
later, finding the stone had not moved, I went to the operating room again. They
made another incision, but found no stone. They had to use an x-ray to locate
the stone. It had gone back
into
the kidney.
The effect
of the spinal had lessened and the doctors were at a loss as to what to do. They
began giving me ether, when a flush of urine washed the stone down. I can barely
remember
the doctor saying that he had the stone. All of this caused peritonitis and, for
ten days, I was
so bloated I couldn't
eat anything. The only thing I wanted was cold water which I couldn't have
except for a spoonful at a time, and only a certain amount a day. I know that it
was only through prayers of my family and other relatives and the members of our
ward, and the power of the Priesthood, that I recovered. I was in the hospital
for two months, and then in an apartment for one month, before the doctor would
release me to go home. While at the apartment, which Cora and Jack Johnson had
helped my wife to find, Norma finished her treatments and went home in ten
days. My wife had a room across the street from the hospital and would try to
take me for a ride each day. We would get into the car and go a little way and
would sometimes go to a cafe to eat. I would not be able to eat but a bite or
two and would ruin her dinner, and then I would have to go back to the
apartment. The doctors opened up my first incision and drained over a pint of
pus. I now had three or four drains in me.
We
made preparations to go home. Mr. Gordon, who owned the Gordon Store in Alamosa,
was up here, so he gave me his ticket on the train and said he would drive the
car home for my wife. They left about 3:00p.m., and Cora and Jack took care of
me as the train didn't leave until 7:30p.m. that night. Arzella says she never
had such a ride in her life. Mr. Gordon drove about eighty miles an hour all the
way, and didn't slowdown for bad roads or anything else. She was sure they would
have a wreck going over La Veta Pass. This
was the first part of April, but there
was still snow on the pass. They finally made
it and she was thankful to get to Alamosa about 11:00 p.m. They
had stopped in Colorado
Springs for dinner and for several
business appointments that Mr. Gordon had, and this took about two hours.
Cora
and Jack really took good care of me. When we got to the train depot, there was
a steep stairway to climb. Jack just picked
me up and carried me. I only weighed 125 pounds which was the least I have ever
weighed since I was a boy. Jack got me into the berth and the porter checked on
me several times during the ride home. My wife met me in Alamosa the next
morning, and we were so happy to be home.
Mrs. Nora Hansen had taken care of the children and our home while we were away,
and they had might good care.
We didn't realize we had so many good
friends.
Flowers, cards, telephone calls, and visits came from some we hardly
knew. I cannot mention all the names, but one I would
like to mention. Arthur Fawcette
came and brought Elders with him and
administered to me many times. He was on a mission to the Western States.
Mrs. Hansen continued to stay with the family, as my wife was in poor health. On
July 11, our last baby, J. Walter, made his
appearance. He was six and a half month baby, and weighed only four and a half
pounds. He required a lot of constant care until he was three months old. The
doctor said that his digestive system had not been fully developed but, in three
months time, he began to get along fine. When you see him now, you wouldn't know
he was ever so little. He is6'2" and weighs over 200 pounds.
We have had many serious
sick spells
in our family, but the Lord has
been very
mindful of us and we have been able to
overcome
them, for
which we give Him the Honorand
Praise.
I was released as Bishop on 22 January 1939. I was called as a High Councilor in
the San Luis Stake. John B. Reed was President, D.E. Shawcroft First Counselor,
and Luther Bagwell Second Counselor. James A. Holman was the Stake Clerk. I was
praised very highly for my splendid and faithful work. I was also sustained as
Stake Superintendent of the Sunday Schools. I don't know of any labors in the
Church that I have enjoyed more than the Sunday School work, unless it has been
working in the Temple.
Now I would like to mention some of the labors in the Church of my wife,
Arzella, as she has been very faithful in these callings. She was Assistant
Secretary of the Sunday School for one year, Secretary for three years, in the
Primary Association for over twenty years, having started to teach at the age of
fifteen. In the Primary, she has been Secretary, First and Second Counselor, and
President for three years. She has been play leader chorister. In Mesa, she has
been a group leader in the Maricopa Stake for three years, Bluebird teacher in
Mesa First Ward fortwo years, October 1945 to December 1946. She has worked
seven or eight years in the Relief Society and many years as a Visiting Teacher
in the Richfield and Mesa First Wards. She was a member of the choir in both
wards and stakes, and with the Singing Mothers Groups. She put in several
teaching in the MIA and has always encouraged and supported me in all my work in
and out of the Church. She has been a real helpmate tome.
I served as President of the La Jara Consolidated School for six years. The
first year, we built the little grade school, the first expansion since
consolidation. The school system has been expanding ever since.
We were released from all our stake and ward callings on 15 September 1944, when
we moved to Mesa, Arizona. On moving to Mesa, I told our Bishop we had held
positions in the ward and stake and we would like to put in some of our time in
the Temple and to gather more information on our kindred dead. It was only a
short time until we received a call from the Stake President to do endowment
work in the Temple, which we did for four years before being set apart as
ordinance workers in the Temple.
We were asked to work as ordinance workers in the Temple, but I could not make
up my mind to accept. I seemed to be afraid and wondered if I could learn the
parts and to do the work that was expected of me, at my age. I was really
shunning it. I was in Colorado and hadn't planned ongoing to Mesa until the
weekend. I had talked to my wife on Friday night and told her I wouldn't be
coming that weekend, as a storm had been predicted Saturday morning. It was very
cloudy, but I loaded up and decided to leave. Several people tried to talk me
out of leaving. I went by the home of my daughter, Luella, in Alamosa. She tried
her best to get me not to go as the report was light snow on Wolf Creek Pass at
that time, but I told her I would soon be over the pass and I would be out of
the snow. So, I left. I had made many trips
back and forth since moving to Mesa. I
was still running the farms, having sold the produce business in the summer of
1945, a business which we had successfully operated for many years.
I got along fine going up the pass and part of the way down. I thought I could
now shift into high gear, as I had been driving in second gear. There was about
three inches of snow on the ground, but what I did not know
about was the sheet of ice that was under the
snow. As I shifted gears, my car went into a spin, knocked off several guard
posts on the edge of the highway, and made a complete turn and headed up the
pass, hanging over the edge of the roadway. I said, "Oh Lord, save me", and I
said it mighty loud. That instant the car stopped. I know the Lord heard and
answered my call. I got out of the care very carefully. It looked like a puff of
wind could send it tumbling to the bottom of the canyon. This was the most
frightening experience of my life. I got my overshoes on and, as soon as I
could, I made my way to a big tree. I knelt down and thanked the Lord
for
my deliverance and asked Him to protect the car until I could get help. Right
there and then, I vowed I would serve Him in any capacity, with his help, that
he wanted e to serve. The storm was very bad.
I went for help and, after several hours, a highway truck hooked onto my car and
pulled it back onto the road. I had called a wrecker from Pagosa Springs, but it
couldn't help. I was amazed at the fellow driving the wrecker. When he saw my
car, he said, "The Lord has still got something for you to do here, yet." He was
a rough looking fellow, chewing tobacco and spitting every minute. I thought to
myself that no matter how he looked, he still believed in God. The car seemed in
good condition and drove fine. Several days after I arrived in Mesa a fellow
stopped and asked me if I knew my back wheel was sprung. That was the wheel all
the strain was on. I took it and tried to get it straightened, but was never
able to do so. I felt very lucky that that was the only damage. I had driven to
Farmington, New Mexico, got a motel room and stayed the night. Then I continued
on home the next morning. I was quite worn out and mighty shaky. I didn't call
home because no one was expecting me. I always drove through during the
day-time.
Helmer called the folks in Mesa at noon on Sunday to ask if I had arrived. He
was told that I wasn't coming. He said he had left Albuquerque Saturday
afternoon and it was his understanding that I had left that morning. He said he
would call Newel Knight, my brother-in-law, to find out. In a few minutes, he
called back and said that I had, in fact, left the Valley. The family began to
worry then. This experience was one that I and my family will never forget. I
drove on the next morning. The roads were all snow-packed. The storm had passed
me. I drove very carefully and took my time getting home about6:00 p.m. We had a
happy reunion. The folks had imagined all kinds of things had happened to
me. The following day, I reported to Harry L. Payne, President of the Arizona
Temple. I was ready to accept the work if he thought I was worthy and could
carry on the work satisfactorily. This was the latter part of November.
After you are asked by the local authorities to become a Temple Ordinance
Worker, your name is sent to Salt Lake City where all your records are reviewed,
before your call is passed upon by the President of the Church and the Quorum of
the Twelve Apostles. My wife and I were set apart for this glorious work on 13
January 1949. President Payne set me apart and gave me a wonderful blessing. We
labored in the Temple there for nine and one-half years, and we felt our work
was successful. The work in the Temple is the most glorious work, and it was the
high-light of any work we have ever done in the Church.
Working in the Temple was a wonderful opportunity and privilege. Words cannot
express the joy and satisfaction we received from this work in the Lord's
house.
I had my first heart attack in the Temple about three months after I began
working there. I was over-anxious to learn the parts and to carry on the work
expected of me. I was in the hospital for three weeks and at home in bed for
three weeks before the doctor gradually let me move about a little. The Temple
was closed during the summer and this gave me time to regain my strength. The
Lord again blessed me and I was able to start back in the Temple when it opened
the first part of October.
My health failing in the spring of 1958, we asked to be released from our Temple
assignments. We received our release with much praise for our labors, on 23 July
1958.
We missed the wonderful work and the contact with the choicest people in the
world. On 26 June 1959, we left for
Racine, Wisconsin, to bring J. Walter back from his mission.
I was feeling quite poorly and did not enjoy the trip as I should have.
After our return, we did not go on to Mesa in October because Dorothy was
expecting a new baby, and we stayed to help her out. Ricky was born 13November
1959.
Jay was anxious to go on to Mesa,
so he went
down.
He called back to tell us the
Bishop wanted us to be there for his mission report.
Under the circumstances we were in, we couldn't make it, so we told him
to go ahead without us.
We have
always felt a little bad that we didn't get to hear his report, although we did
hear his report in the La Jara Ward.
We also heard him report in the San Luis Stake Conference, and we were
very proud of him, as we have always been of all others in our family.
On 4 December 19
59,I had a light stroke.
It
took my voice; I have always had a good strong voice.
The past few
years I have been able to do little of anything.
But, the loving care of my good wife and family has assisted me and I
have received many blessings and have lived a happy life.
When I was 84 years old, the family had an
open house for me at our ranch home in La Jara, Colorado.
I never knew we had so many wonderful friends and neighbors.
On 5 October 1966, I passed my 85th birthday,
and I feel I could live to be 90, or maybe even100 years old. I feel I have
lived a good, full life, have experienced many wonderful things and have seen
many changes.
I thank the Lord for
all His goodness and blessings, both spiritual and temporal.
My wife and I have lived a rich, full
life together.
I could not
have asked for a more wonderful wife and companion.
We have been greatly blessed.
I am thankful for my wife and my family. I have fourteen living children, 44
grandchildren, and 28 great-grandchildren.
They are all very dear to my heart but, above all, I am thankful for the
missionaries who came to Denmark and brought the Gospel to our home, and for the
Testimony I have of it.
Some of our
family left Denmark before hearing the Gospel.
Some of them have joined since, but several of my brothers and sisters
never joint the Church.
I am the last surviving member of my family and, if the Lord sees fit, I hope to
live many happy years yet.
These statements I have made are true. I have always tried to live an honest
life and to deal fairly with my fellow men.
Signed
/ O.W. Gylling
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Additional Notes by Arzella K. Gylling:
I feel I should add a few lines along with my dear husband for all his goodness
to me and his family. He is and has been a wonderful father and husband, always
kind and considerate to all.
We have spent almost forty years together happily. Yes, we have been through
many trying times, as he has mentioned. Things haven't always been roses, but he
has never given up. We have never had to suffer or to want for material things,
and I attribute this to living the Gospel.
I would like to say that he has always taken care of his own clothes. He never
takes off his suit or pants, that he doesn't brush them and put them away and he
does this to this day. Since he had that stroke, he sleeps late in the morning
so that when he gets up he makes the bed, unless I want to change the
sheets. So, if all men would do that much to help their wives, I know they would
greatly appreciate it as I do.
I am grateful for my testimony of the Gospel, for my dear husband, for my
family, and for his children. They are all dear to me. I only pray we may all
live unitedly in this life that we may enjoy salvation in eternity.
I am grateful for my heritage, for my wonderful parents, my brothers and
sister. I only hope that I will be able to continue to live a life that will
always be a worthy example for all my loved ones to follow.
I have received many blessings and healings through the power of the
Priesthood. I know the Lord hears and answers my prayers. Sometimes, I have had
direct answers to them.
I ask the Lord's blessings to ever attend us and our family.
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Marriages of the Children:
Rudolph Helmer married Mattie Lucile Schneider on 9 January1924.
They are divorced, and have two sons, Howard Lee born 22 September 1930,
and married to Dorothy Jene Stubblefield (they have two sets of twins), and
Roger Wayne, born 10December 1932, and married to Shirley Mae Van Farell (they
have one child).
Rudolph Helmer married Sylvia Jean Chafin on 24 January 1944, and they have two
children, Marlo Kay and Dwight Jene.
Carl
Wilford (Bill) married Mable Joy Schneider on
12 December 1944.
Clara married Irvin T. Nissen on 16 Jun 1923, and they have two children, Dennis
Orval and Jean (both deceased) and Dennis, killed in World War II.
Viola married Ray C. Clarke on 25 February 1925, andthey have two children,
Bettie Rae (married to Bob Baker, with two children, Susan and Kelly), and Leona
(married to Bobby LaVerne Claunch, with two children Karen and Forest).
Gladys married Charley Osborn Scheibe on 14 April 1930, and they are divorced,
with two children, Richard (married to Glenna Lee Knight, with one child,
Charley Osborn), and Osborn (deceased).
Gladys married William Arthur Burns on 29 March 1953.
Luella married Hartley Ellsworth Owsley o 18
March 1933, and they have five children, James Ellsworth (married to Sue Ann
Slawbaugh, with three children), Hartley Ellsworth (Buddy) (married to Judith
Marie Miller, with one child), Jacqueline Sue (married to Charles Dorsey, with
three children), Robert Gray, and Charles Franklin (married to Becky Jean
Curtis, with two children).
Garda married Glenn G. Knight on 13 May 1935, and they have six children. Glenna
Lee (married to James Ival Husaker, with four children, and divorced; she
married Richard Walter Scheibe, and they have one chld), Sherron (married to
Ronald Lawry on 10 April 1959, and one child), Gail Lloyd (married to Shirley
Sykes on 16 December 1960, and two children), Gloria (married Howard J. Scott on
23 May 1963), and Carla.
Norma married John Howley and they were divorced. She, then, married Hans Peas
and they were divorced. She married Benjamin Lafayette Smith on 19 December
1941.
Most all of the children are active in the Church.